I Am Not With You

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I am not with you if you co-opt past horrors to score rhetorical points.

I am not with you if you use gendered stereotypes.

I am not with you if you whitewash discussions of privilege.

I am not with you if you amplify voices doing any of the above things.

I will never stop advocating for schools that are in the best interests of kids and teachers. I care about ensuring that public education remains public, and that people get the resources they need - inside and outside schools. I also realize that my voice is just one of many, and that we all have our stories to tell. I understand the passion, the frustration, the anger.

But I will not stand with you if, in the name of social justice via education, you trample on issues of social justice. I will not stand with you if you use the facile reasoning that "we need to be provocative" in order to get attention. I will not stand with you if you justify intellectual laziness, hyperbole, and factual inaccuracy as okay because "the other side" is working to hurt kids.

I won't stop advocating. I won't stop my work. But I reject - completely - the notion that by calling attention to privilege, racism, sexism, and hyperbole, I am doing anybody a disservice, or "not understanding the magnitude of the problem."

I will talk with anyone about issues of education, or issues of social justice. I will do my best to listen, and to understand, and to reserve judgement for as long as possible. I make no claim of expertise, and fully anticipate being wrong on many things. But - even if I agree with your general positions on what teaching and learning should be - I will not blindly follow if you attempt to bring up Tuskegee, the Holocaust, slavery, or gender-based insults as rhetorical devices. I will not ignore basic errors of fact simply because I happen to agree with some of what you say.

That is not okay, and that is not my fight.

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